When two people join hands in marriage you say a vowel that you will stay together through good and bad in front of God and family and friend's. Well from what I see when the vowels are broken that it seems to affect a whole lot of people, family's, friend's, children and yes even pets. There is definitely times for a divorce when it comes to abuse or something in that nature. But the most common one is because people are not happy with themself, or the spouse and think something better is out there. Most of the time when children are involved it is a overload on the children and most usually one parent. I know there are parents out there that share the responsibility between them but not very often. I have tried to think of some humor to put in this but I just can't. Most all of us know men or woman that is raising a single family, we should try to lend a helping hand in some way.
We all have seen the effect that divorce has on kids, from grade changes, to getting in trouble at school or the law, or just psychiatric problems. Some kids pull through this and some don't, a lot of the time they think its thier fault for the divorce. Kids need two parents to raise them so they can get what the male and female both can offer them to get the full effect of how to relate to them both. But if you dont have both you can still be ok because you have a heavenly father that can give you what you need. Matthew 19:14 Jesus said, Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the Kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.
But what about the single parent? As you work longer hours or maybe even a second job to make it, you pay a babysitter or rely on family or friends to watch them, pick them up, or drop them off. Thank god for family and friend's because it dont seem possible with out them. It seems you are working to have someone else help raise your children but most usually thats all you can do. For some reason it seems that the kids forget all the family time, love, laughter, and fun times that they had, but no one can take that away from you. I came from a divorced home but I remember all the love, fun and sacrifices that we had and we were very close. It must be built in us to want to be accepted and approved by the parent that left us because after a time most kids tend to migrate to the parent that they didn't grow up with. Even though it hurts just keep trusting in God and hopefully someday they will come back to there nest. It reminds me growing up as a Christian, that all God blesses you with constantly watching over you and providing for you, that some day you might become the prodigal child and rebel. But with faith, love, and prayers, your wisdom will bring you back to the one that was with you through it all.
With all that said I want to give all the couples praise that stayed together through the thick and thin, through the joy and tears, that choose to stay and fight for their marriage, and not take the easy way out. You and your children will be blessed for it.
Just so I am not misunderstood, you can still be blessed if you come from a divorced home. Sometimes you just have more than one mom and dad, several grandparents, cousins,? and a big loving family. God loves us all.
I was just putting on paper about the the life of a single parent and through it all, no one can take the joy that you have.
God, family, country, may God bless us.
We all have seen the effect that divorce has on kids, from grade changes, to getting in trouble at school or the law, or just psychiatric problems. Some kids pull through this and some don't, a lot of the time they think its thier fault for the divorce. Kids need two parents to raise them so they can get what the male and female both can offer them to get the full effect of how to relate to them both. But if you dont have both you can still be ok because you have a heavenly father that can give you what you need. Matthew 19:14 Jesus said, Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the Kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.
But what about the single parent? As you work longer hours or maybe even a second job to make it, you pay a babysitter or rely on family or friends to watch them, pick them up, or drop them off. Thank god for family and friend's because it dont seem possible with out them. It seems you are working to have someone else help raise your children but most usually thats all you can do. For some reason it seems that the kids forget all the family time, love, laughter, and fun times that they had, but no one can take that away from you. I came from a divorced home but I remember all the love, fun and sacrifices that we had and we were very close. It must be built in us to want to be accepted and approved by the parent that left us because after a time most kids tend to migrate to the parent that they didn't grow up with. Even though it hurts just keep trusting in God and hopefully someday they will come back to there nest. It reminds me growing up as a Christian, that all God blesses you with constantly watching over you and providing for you, that some day you might become the prodigal child and rebel. But with faith, love, and prayers, your wisdom will bring you back to the one that was with you through it all.
With all that said I want to give all the couples praise that stayed together through the thick and thin, through the joy and tears, that choose to stay and fight for their marriage, and not take the easy way out. You and your children will be blessed for it.
Just so I am not misunderstood, you can still be blessed if you come from a divorced home. Sometimes you just have more than one mom and dad, several grandparents, cousins,? and a big loving family. God loves us all.
I was just putting on paper about the the life of a single parent and through it all, no one can take the joy that you have.
God, family, country, may God bless us.
OK I GUESS I FOUND SOME HUMOR IN THIS PICTURE
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